Everyone has their own definition of a best friend. But the universal meaning applies to majority of the friendships out there. Whether a male or a female, your best friend should be the human you have the most fun with. The one you trust your secrets with & pour out all your problems to, the shoulder to cry on. The one you grow up with by your side & easily connect with. The one that can make you laugh when you're feeling down. The one that understands your decisions even when you seem unreasonable. The one that can't stay mad at you for more than 5 minutes. The one that would drop anything for you in order to help you from a sticky situation. The one that you can be yourself with & all of that applies regardless of how much you spend time with your best friend. Numerous people have more than 1 best friend & then there are those who only have that 1. But either or, they are family & being best friends is not a label or title. It is meaningful and should not be taking granted of, because true friendships are hard to find & hold. That is why if your best friend has other best friends, you shouldn't worry or be jealous when they're not spending time with you. Don't become upset because you believe that "they don't make time for you". I've gone through this scenario multiple times & trust me, distance does not mean that your relationship with your best friend is falling apart. Because whether you spend the night at their house for a week straight or don't see them for a month, the memories & love you carry for the other person does not change your relationship. Do not give up on someone after months or years of being their "best friend". Do not get angry with them. Do not forget about them. Do not ignore them. Because a best friend wouldn't do that. After all, I would know that my friendship with my best friends never changes even after reuniting. Cherish that special friend. Cherish life. Be thankful.
Thank you for the incredible 8 years. We weren't always together, we didn't even meet everyday but I know that we'd always be there for each other.
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